Rainer Schmid

Do we need to teach our kids Internet lifeskills?

by Rainer Schmid

2007/10/18

I recently came across a study that revealed that 32% of all Internet using teens have been contacted by a stranger online (someone that has no known connection to the respondent or their friends). 7% said that this encounter made them feel scared or uncomfortable. For teens with social networking profiles or online photos of themselves, those numbers run even higher.

The findings of this report based on a survey of 935 teens aged 12 – 17 in the USA from October to November 2006. While based on USA specific results the findings can, however, be generalised to the global population.
Some of the findings showed that girls attract the most strangers online, and by far the creepiest of the encounters. For the teen Internet-using population in the US as a whole, only 4% of guys experienced an uncomfortable online contact, while for girls, that number jumps to 11%. Among teens that are contacted by strangers, girls (27%) are far more likely to report feeling scared or uncomfortable compared to boys (15%).

Due to the not so recent articles (here and here) in the news about online sexual predators, it would only be sensible that teens and young kids be informed about the potential hazards of

social networking sites

like Facebook and MySpace.
Children are taught not to talk to strangers or a take sweets from strangers in real life, but what about the encounters that they’ll potentially have with online predators?

Are you a mum, a dad, a teacher? We’d be interested to hear about what you’re doing to protect your kids online?

Comments

I have a signed contract with my daughter... (Sounds harsh) but that way we both understand what is acceptable and what is not.

We have agreed that she will get permission before she registers on any website, adds any contact to msn and she has given me access to her Gmail account.

The key is to spend quality time with our children online… teaching them how to use the internet sensibly! oh and to have fun online : )

No method is 100% guaranteed … but I know my daughter knows her stuff and is less likely to be caught out online!

It really comes down to education and communication!

Posted by Janine on 2007/10/18

there are lots of "kid safe" websites that your child can become members on and have safe fun at the same time.Like: club penguin (http:www.miniclip.com/games/club-penguin/en/)
and dogster (http:
www.dogster.com)

who needs face book when theres dogster ;-)

Posted by Sade Carpenter on 2007/10/18

I whole heartedly agree with Janine's angle of - education and communication.

My daughter is 9 and therefore does not have such an online life -yet, but when she is surfing between national geographic Kids site and ( dare I say it) the Bratz site...we have an understanding about where she can go and where not.

The time she spends watching TV or on computer ( online or not) is monitored, and when she is online I am usually right there with her - exploring the wonders or the web.

Nice one Rainer for highlighting such an essential point...there needs to be more awareness around this topic

Posted by Claire on 2007/10/19

Nice one, Rainer! My daughter is only 5 but already very much into watching and learning what I do. Next year she will go to 'big' school and they teach them computers. So this is very good info. I have to start on the internet education now already.
I will have to ask Sade and Kiara for some good, wholesome, kid-friendly sites that Miya can explore. =)

Posted by SuperSanti on 2007/10/19

I definitely think that internet safety life skills will become as important as offline safety life skills.

I just wonder if schools have become aware off this just yet. If they haven't, then I think that they need to. Internet and technology usage has become far more widespread amongst the youth then most people actually think.

Parents would obviously know better than most how much time their children spend on the internet and MXIT etc. But I wonder if some parents actually know the dangers that lurk online. Parents may also have to be included in these classes as well so that they become aware of not only the dangers, but also the positive aspects of online life.

Posted by Rainer on 2007/10/19

Although it's not internet safety, I found this post by the ever insightful Seth Godin interesting: sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2007/10/the-wikipedia-g.html

Posted by Craig on 2007/10/19

I completely agree Rainer!

I know my daughter’s school (Wynberg Girls) takes online security VERY seriously and have also signed a contract with my daughter. They have extensive programs to educate both parents and kids about offline and online risks. That said, I do not believe that this is the norm in South Africa and I suppose I have a huge advantage considering my industry. If only all parents took the time to understand the technologies!

Posted by Janine on 2007/10/19

Make a comment

To prevent GottaQuirk from becoming spam central, we block the use of certain words like porn, sex etc. We apologise for any inconvenience, but can't spend our lives deleting messages left by spammy friends.

Captcha